My Melody

Wednesday, March 5, 2014

Crazy thing


Something crazy recently happened that I thought would never happen between my best friend/little sister and I. It came to the point where I began to believe that we had drifted apart and I didn't want to be her friend anymore. Then, as we kept on talking, we started seeing how great of a friendship we have. She also brought up all of the amazing memories we created together and how much she had opened up to me. She mentioned how many things she had done with me than with anyone else she knows, even those who she sees in person. It hit me, she really is a little sister to me and my best friend, why would I be crazy to throw that away? I felt so stupid at that point, and even make her cry like I had a few times in the past. I feel like a bad friend and a jerk for doing that to her. It's crazy how we forgive one another and still want to be crazy siblings together. ^^ I guess we are best friends!


Here's the crazy conclusion we came to, the thing that was really causing us distress, tears, and even the thought of ending our friendship was because of this man. Ruki of the GazettE, he literally came between us because we both liked him or even love or "loved" him. It was something that we both never wanted to happen to the both of us, but it did. Just over a guy? I know, it sounds stupid but, it does make sense to a certain extent. Well, since my best friend still loves him I had told her to admire and love him away from me and my sight. I don't like him because he came between my best friend and I and I never want to fight with her or make her feel sad ever again. Now, I know that I will always choose my friends over some guy because friendships are so much more important than fangirling over a celebrity. 

I guess I had learned something new!

We make mistakes and we learn from them, that way we don't repeat these mistakes in the future. 

We can only get stronger from these things that happen to us.

Well, this was a very short post today, but I just wanted to share with you my discovery and hope it helps you if you are or have been through this. It's always nice to be able to relate to others, because in reality no one wants to be the only one. 

Have a great night!






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